When you want to get a job, how do you do it?
The best way is to politely harass the gatekeepers.
If this works then why wouldn’t you apply this to a larger scale? In order to fulfill your dreams and get anything you ever wanted you have to define your goal and politely harass it until it comes true.
You are defined by your rituals.
The people that get to where they want to be are the ones that won’t settle, the ones that won’t lower their expectations, the ones that step by step work toward their goals long enough that they get what they want.